Yesterday evening I got a very long message. This person thought I was talking about her in my Facebook post. While, I was upset that she ignored all my messages, my post was not about her. In her quest, she told me I was a rude, manipulative, bitter woman. I was told I treated my 22 year old like trash. The way I ran my house was extreme. I was told I talk down to people, and that is why I don’t have any real friends, and why no one wants to watch my kids or animals. I should just get over the past, and leave my daughter alone because she doesn’t need the drama.

The odd thing, this person knows first hand how my daughter is. She went to see her and she let her boyfriend verbally abuse her, when she was sick with Covid. She let her boyfriend threaten her.

I think, perhaps, she has no clue why my rules were extreme. Starting at age 8 when B stole a very large amount of money. The school called me as she had over $100 on her. Subsequent things has happened. She stole from both grandmother’s, aunts, cousins, and friends. I have darn good reasons for keeping my kids in line.

It boggles my mind, that this person who wrote telling me how awful of a person I am, also wrote that she thought I needed mental health help. So, in thinking that I was in a place of needing help, she chose to tell me how awful I am.

Is that what today’s people in their 20s do? Do they tell people they need help as they mentally rip them to shreds? To even say, she thinks I have the depression or something, but still feel the need to knock the breath out of you? Get over it? I wish I could. I wish I can dismiss pain so easily. Depression or something is actually, Depression and something… actually Major Depressive Disorder, Complex Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, and PTSD.

I definitely can not people. If this is what society has deemed as normal, I want no part of it. I had already unfriended this person on Facebook, so my daughter fed her my posts. My Facebook is private. In doing this, she crossed a line. For the first time ever, I unfriended my daughter. She has done it to me off and on as a kid, but this was a first for me.

I wonder if you can add pictures? I have no idea how to start this blog… I could screen shot pics of my evaluation, or the latest one this year. I guess there are people who would make this stuff up..

Then I hesitated… What do I have to prove? What am I still trying to people please in the midst of everything going on?

Why?